5 THINGS I WOULD NEVER DO AS A SEX COACH
Here are 5 things I'd never do as a Sex Coach! Number 5 is pretty spicy, so keep reading!
Photo Creds: Kaitlyn Casso
1. Feel guilty for not wanting sex.
Guilt and sex should never mix. My husband and I are always upfront about when we’re ready for intimacy. It’s about understanding each other's needs and maintaining open, honest communication. No guilt trips, just healthy conversations.
2. Avoid confrontation or conflict.
We don't let things go unsaid. Avoiding difficult conversations only leads to resentment—and trust me, resentment never just fades away. Conflict can be healthy; it's where real growth happens. So speak up, say what needs to be said, and let your relationship evolve.
3. Compare our relationship to others.
We don’t waste energy trying to match someone else’s relationship. What works for us is unique to us. Instead of searching for what's “normal,” we focus on creating our own version of it that keeps us connected and fulfilled.
4. Put a price tag on our relationship’s needs.
Whether it's therapy, coaching, date nights, or even new bedroom accessories, we don’t skimp when it comes to nurturing our relationship. Yes, it might cost money, but if it helps us thrive, it’s a priority, not an expense.
And now, drumroll, please... Number 5!
5. We don’t co-sleep with our kids.
For our marriage, co-sleeping has never been an option, and both my husband and I stand by it. We believe in teaching our kids good sleep habits and maintaining clear boundaries for our personal space. But hey, if co-sleeping works for you and you still have a fulfilling, intimate relationship, more power to you!
However, if your intimacy is suffering and you're co-sleeping, it might be worth reconsidering. Just something to think about!
